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Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Anonymous writes:

You know what I'm sick of?  I'm sick of "being the grown-up."  My DH has an Ex and she is the biggest child-abusing bitch since Snow White's Evil Queen, but she always gets away with her BS because "we have to be the bigger people."

I love his kids with my whole heart and I'M the one who buys their clothes, dries their tears and makes them do their homework.  They live with us full time and I am their mom in every way but one - the one that counts, apparently.  It doesn't matter what plans we've made with them, if she takes it into her head to show up unannounced (she doesn't live in town) we let the kids go with her because they don't see her very often.

I know we're doing the right thing.  I know it's what's good for the kids that matters, not what we want.  But I don't have to like it, okay?  In fact it sucks!!!!

2 comments:

  1. Anonymous, I have to believe that it is not only the right thing to do but that somehow, someday, we stepmoms are gonna beat the rap that the Brothers Grimm and Walt Disney have unjustly pinned on us.

    I'm pretty sure that the kids know who the good guys are - even if they are too shy ever to come right out and say it.

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  2. Ahhhhhh just wait til those y'ung uns of yours have kids. You have no idea how quickly you will be canonized.

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