RC envy! I finally had to buy my own VCR etc to enjoy girly stuff. All we seemed to watch when the kids were growing up is Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Monster Trucks, Star Wars, Indiana Jones and the like. If I wanted to see something that appealed to my intellect, I had to do it in private.
Just when did "Anne of Green Gables" become contraband?
If I'd known the sex would all but dry up when we got married, I might have approached things differently. I don't like having to be the one constantly asking for it. I want my man to be aggressive and pursue sex with me instead of just giving it a go when I pursue it. I just hope I can make peace with it, since the rest is pretty good. Maybe I need to let him chase me a bit more... I just can't stand games.
ReplyDeleteSex sure is a temperamental part of marriage, especially once the babies come home. Hang in there. Have you considered a "date night" like Millie's? Also, just a little honest chat?
ReplyDeleteRemind him that you married him for more than sex and be sure he knows he's appreciated for everything he does, in and outside the bedroom.